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A
woman who always wanted to skydive, a farmer who missed his
fields, a grandmother who longed to ride on the Indy
Speedway - meet the man who granted these wishes and more...
NEVER
TOO LATE
By Bob Haverstick
Indianapolis, Indiana |
The lights dimmed in the community center auditorium and, as
the curtain rose, I reminded myself, Relax. Enjoy the play. You
need some distraction. The computer software company where
I’d worked for 14 years had closed its doors and I didn’t know
how I was ever going to find a new job. “I’m 51 years old,”
I’d told my wife, Cathy, earlier that day, tossing aside the
classified ads. “Who’s going to want to take me on?”
“You could always start your own business,” Cathy said.
“You used to dream about doing that.”
Sure, I’d had my big plans, but that was years ago. The real
world had dashed other dreams of mine in the past.
I glanced around the theater. There was an elderly man across
the aisle listening intently to the student actors, a smile on his
lips. He seemed to be enjoying every minute of the play. It
focused on the experiences of college kids who had to do community
service, such as visiting nursing homes or helping elderly
neighbors with their chores. Wouldn’t it be great, I
thought, if life could imitate art? I would love to go to a
nursing home, wave a wand and put a smile on someone’s face. It
would be like granting a wish. Humph, I thought. Too bad
granting wishes isn’t a job in the real world.
The play ended and the actors left the stage, talking about how
they were going to help others in their community. I realized then
that I didn’t have to wait to do something significant for
someone else. It could start right now in my community with me. I
was still mulling over how nice it would be to grant wishes when I
remembered reading about an organization called Make-A-Wish, which
grants wishes to sick kids. All at once I had a brainstorm: Why
couldn’t I do the same for the elderly? As soon as I got home I
couldn’t wait to tell Cathy.
“But it’s hardly a job,” I said, my mind filling with
doubts. “In fact, it could end up being really expensive.”
“Maybe it could become your job,” Cathy said. “Pray about
it.”
The next morning I got up early, made a pot of coffee and sat
in the kitchen. I turned to the Bible and my eyes almost
immediately fell on a verse from Proverbs: “Do not withhold good
from those who deserve it when it is in your power to act.” Okay,
Lord, I’ll give it a shot.
The first person I talked to was Jason Buck, the administrator
at the retirement home where my mother-in-law had spent her last
days. He was supportive about the whole project, but asked,
“Where are you going to get the money?”
“I don’t know,” I told him. “I’m not sure how much
I’ll actually need.”
“There might be someone here you can help….” He told me
about June, a sweet woman confined to a wheelchair. “She
doesn’t have much money and doesn’t get out very often. I’ll
bet she has a wish that needs granting.”
June was wearing a well-worn dress when I explained my purpose.
Her eyes lit up. “Any wish?” she asked incredulously.
I gulped. “Sure, any wish.”
She blushed for a moment and said, “It’s not going to sound
like much, but what I really need are some new clothes. I like to
go to church on Sunday and Bingo during the week, but I only have
a few old dresses like this one. I’d love to go to a store and
get something new.”
“That shouldn’t be too hard,” I said. I called my friend
Sandi who I knew loved to help others in need. The next thing I
knew Cathy, Sandi and I were taking June on the shopping spree of
her life. I’d never seen anyone so happy. In the end we bought
her five new outfits and a pair of shoes. “My friends won’t
recognize me,” she said, admiring herself in the mirror.
I started a public charity and called it Never Too Late. But
the requests only trickled in, leaving me without many wishes to
grant. If things didn’t pick up, I knew that pretty soon I would
have to get a job. I was about to polish up my résumé when I got
another call from Jason at the retirement home.
“I’ve got an ex-farmer here who misses being out in the
fields,” he said. Edwin had farmed in southeast Indiana for 60
years. He and his wife sold their place and moved to Indianapolis
to be closer to their daughter. He didn’t miss being up before
dawn every day and all the backbreaking responsibilities that came
with farming, but he sure wished he could plow a field again.
“What I’d like,” Edwin told me in a tremulous voice,
“is to drive a tractor one more time.”
On an early spring day under the bluest skies, I met Edwin and
his daughter at the farm of a man who was glad to grant Edwin’s
wish. As Edwin stepped out of the van, he closed his eyes and
breathed in deeply the smell of the freshly tilled earth. When he
opened them, the tractor appeared almost like magic before him.
His face lit up. Edwin climbed up on that tractor, fired it up and
drove out into the field. Lord, I thought, if that’s
the last wish we grant, this whole thing has been worth it. What
I’d had to do to make June and Edwin happy was so simple and yet
so profound. And all it took was listening to their dreams.
As it turned out, the tractor ride was only the beginning for
Never Too Late. Edwin’s story got into the local paper. And all
at once we were inundated with calls from people who had wishes,
and from those who wanted to make donations to our charity and
volunteer.
In seven years the requests have never stopped. A 92-year-old
woman had her high-speed wish come true when she got a ride around
the Indianapolis Motor Speedway at more than 120 miles per hour!
It was the ride of her life. Or take the octogenarian couple,
Albert and Esther, who went skydiving for their sixtieth wedding
anniversary. Then there was the opera lover who made a
once-in-a-lifetime trip to New York City to hear her favorite
tenor, Placido Domingo. She even got to meet him backstage after
the performance.
What I do has become much more than a job. It’s my calling,
that place where I feel I’m meant to serve God. I fulfill
people’s dreams, with help from many others, but it all began
when I allowed myself to dream again. It’s never too late to do
that.
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